You have recently told your child that you and your spouse are seeking a divorce in Kentucky. You expected the news to be difficult for him or her to handle, but you did not quite anticipate just how hard it would be. Now, you are left trying to explain why your relationship is ending, answer questions about how this change will affect your child and continue to provide unparalleled support throughout the process.
One of the most important things to remember when you first tell your child about your situation, is that he or she will undoubtedly need time to process the information. Often, this process is raw, emotional and difficult. Where possible, it is ideal for you and your spouse to hold such discussions together to provide the highest degree of support to your child. In helping your child cope with the saddening news, Parents suggests some helpful tips for you to consider including the following:
- Build up your support group and encourage your child to do the same.
- Maintain an open relationship where your child is comfortable speaking with you about his or her concerns.
- Be honest in disclosing appropriate details and do not make things sound better than they really are.
- Never disagree or fight with your ex in the presence of your child.
- Establish a fair visitation schedule to allow your child one-on-one time with both you and your ex.
The information in this article is intended for educational purposes only and should not be taken as legal advice.Â
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